tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post1502802566436282478..comments2023-10-11T02:09:22.882-07:00Comments on Woman.Anonymous7: Walking off a cliffwoman.anonymous7http://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-470607166341269312009-01-28T00:06:00.000-08:002009-01-28T00:06:00.000-08:00Ellie & Colleen - There is a great, supportive...Ellie & Colleen - There is a great, supportive community online for partners of sex addicts. It's been a lifeline for me.<BR/><BR/>I wish you strength and courage on your path of healing and recovery. It's not an easy journey. But I can say after 19 months that mine has been a rewarding journey.<BR/><BR/>I was just saying to someone in my S-Anon meeting tonight that I still wouldn't <I>choose</I> this path, the pain and betrayal I've experienced. But I also can't imagine any other way I would have grown as much as I have over that time. <BR/><BR/>I've learned so much about myself, and I'm stronger and happier for it. Parts of me are still sad. But the grief of loss can co-exist with healing and growth. I believe over the long run the healing and growth will far outweigh that grief. For that, and for all that I've gained from this experience, I am grateful.woman.anonymous7https://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-8154518026612317852009-01-25T13:41:00.000-08:002009-01-25T13:41:00.000-08:00Woman Anonymous - My world began to unravel at the...Woman Anonymous - My world began to unravel at the start of December when I discovered my husband's hidden porn library on our home PC and it finally crashed around me with the discovery that my husband (the person closest and dearest to me) has been using escorts for the last 6 years of our marriage - we've been married for only 7. I know that I don't need to relate to you the profound hurt and rage that his unbelievable treachery has caused.<BR/><BR/>I stumbled across your blog while trying to learn about his sex addiction and I have been reading every article that you've posted since June 2007. It has been an enormous source of help for me in my struggle to make sense of my new reality (my actual reality for the last 6 years!). I am 39 with 2 children under the age of 3 and as much as I want to walk away from him right now I feel for my children's sake I have to explore the possibility of continuing a relationship with him. Learning about your personal journey has given me many insights and a litte hope (though I'm not there yet!) and I thank you for that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02847158042320900413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-71983109578744639622009-01-24T21:50:00.000-08:002009-01-24T21:50:00.000-08:00I have never read any blogs before. I found yours....I have never read any blogs before. I found yours. It is so similar to my life, in many ways. I am new to finding help, but I divorced my husband of 15 years after only 8 months of separation. He is in denial and I could not stay with this stranger. So now, after the trauma, the healing begins. <BR/>thank you for sharing your story. <BR/>ellieneptunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12191974012413048602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-78999719935336388272009-01-20T20:13:00.000-08:002009-01-20T20:13:00.000-08:00Thanks for sharing...neat piece...:)Love improv......Thanks for sharing...neat piece...:)Love improv...great metaphor....Scribbling-Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08346833919303512262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-78961544432897618402009-01-20T17:23:00.000-08:002009-01-20T17:23:00.000-08:00That was beautiful, Woman Anonymous. Thanks so muc...That was beautiful, Woman Anonymous. Thanks so much for sharing.MargauxMeadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12825471511010339716noreply@blogger.com