tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post1918145378500406701..comments2023-10-11T02:09:22.882-07:00Comments on Woman.Anonymous7: There is still griefwoman.anonymous7http://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-67310272364549749942007-12-27T18:56:00.000-08:002007-12-27T18:56:00.000-08:00For me the biggest thing I had to grieve was the l...For me the biggest thing I had to grieve was the loss of the fantasy that I thought I had. From what I've read about you, I have a feeling that may be your case as well. <BR/><BR/>Most girls are brought up with the ridiculous,unattainable "prince charming complex" (you know...how some prince on a white horse is going to come along & rescue us?). I can honestly say now though that I'm one of the lucky ones. I think most all of us going thru this addiction are lucky (depending on how you look at it of course & at what point you're at in recovery). See, we get the honest to God truth that no one on this earth is perfect. And when we do get that realization, we HAVE to grieve its' passing.<BR/><BR/>Just my humble opinion...take what you like & leave the rest.<BR/><BR/>http://crossingmybridge.blogspot.com/Kelleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14867732773223483189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-56975827479942497762007-12-24T14:16:00.000-08:002007-12-24T14:16:00.000-08:00Early on, someone told me that I might want to see...Early on, someone told me that I might want to seek out grief counseling to help deal with my husband's addiction. And I realized I really was grieving a huge loss and I did have to deal with that. I think grief has been the dominant emotion for me in all of this.Mary P Jones (MPJ)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10251787926841410344noreply@blogger.com