tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post5823786421917979174..comments2023-10-11T02:09:22.882-07:00Comments on Woman.Anonymous7: Husband travelingwoman.anonymous7http://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-85114689442859933052007-08-14T17:10:00.001-07:002007-08-14T17:10:00.001-07:00I checked out the website and found myself engross...I checked out the website and found myself engrossed in it and had to finally walk away from it. Thank you for sharing it.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01891911158559113512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-35347046885540666542007-08-14T17:10:00.000-07:002007-08-14T17:10:00.000-07:00I checked out the website and found myself engross...I checked out the website and found myself engrossed in it and had to finally walk away from it. Thank you for sharing it.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01891911158559113512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-1125024945966948432007-08-13T18:15:00.000-07:002007-08-13T18:15:00.000-07:00It is a sad solution to think that we would have t...It is a sad solution to think that we would have to spend the rest of our lives watching over a dishonest and unfaithful spouse. Watching over someone who cannot even feel enough empathy to put themselves in the shoes of their wife and understand the pain and wreckage they have caused.<BR/><BR/>I can completely understand how maddening it is that he doesn't get it. Maybe he doesn't have the capacity to "get it". By the way, there is a website called survivinginfidelity.com which has a lot of people in the same situation who can post messages and talk with eachother.Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16297525904374497184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-13772917963166860952007-08-10T12:02:00.000-07:002007-08-10T12:02:00.000-07:00Have you asked your husband if he's imagined you w...Have you asked your husband if he's imagined you with another man (and described in great detail the experience)? If so, how did it make him feel? I asked mine how it would make him feel to imagine me with another man and to put himself in my shoes. He didn't really get it, I don't think, or else he wouldn't let his mind go there. I just desperately want him to understand the pain, anxiety, insecurity, etc. that I'm feeling now, and don't know if he ever will. Maddening!<BR/>My therapist told me, if it's possible, to start traveling with him when he goes on trips! Can you do that? More money, I know, but could be an adventure for the family!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01891911158559113512noreply@blogger.com