tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post6062101065638734150..comments2023-10-11T02:09:22.882-07:00Comments on Woman.Anonymous7: Still have lots of feelings to deal withwoman.anonymous7http://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-43868390076419376342007-09-12T09:39:00.000-07:002007-09-12T09:39:00.000-07:00My therapist says it is something that will always...My therapist says it is something that will always be there in our replationship, but that it will become less jarring to me over time.<BR/><BR/>Regarding staying v. leaving, every situation is different. My choice to try to work this out is based on the fact that, despite his illness, my husband is an outstanding human being in so many other ways. And he loves me, and is working hard to deal with his issues. Were it not for an overwhelming amount of good things still present in the wake of this mess, I would not still be here.woman.anonymous7https://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-34235817757215747232007-09-12T09:10:00.000-07:002007-09-12T09:10:00.000-07:00Do people ever really get over something like this...Do people ever really get over something like this? In the meetings you attend, have you met anyone who successfully and happily kept their marriage together?<BR/><BR/>I have to admit right now for me it seems impossible. And wives who accept this and stay - are they just so afraid of change? Would they be staying if they had found out something like this when they were still in their 20's or 30's? <BR/><BR/>Do they just get beaten down by the thought of all those years invested and the immense challenge of an upheaval in their lives when they are at the point of being in their 40's or 50's?Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16297525904374497184noreply@blogger.com