tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post6803836587187393849..comments2023-10-11T02:09:22.882-07:00Comments on Woman.Anonymous7: Your needs? I don't really carewoman.anonymous7http://www.blogger.com/profile/09360902845606513227noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-80734203888625615562007-12-27T04:42:00.000-08:002007-12-27T04:42:00.000-08:00Your post has me in tears. I want to be able to gi...Your post has me in tears. I want to be able to give 200% to my wife for the rest of my days. How did I become this selfish monster?SexAddictJohnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00223920270191141051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-11142415142659524352007-12-21T02:26:00.000-08:002007-12-21T02:26:00.000-08:00Your story is also my story.I'm an ex partner of a...Your story is also my story.<BR/>I'm an ex partner of a recovering sex addict and even though I decided to be an "ex", I haven't managed to get it over. <BR/>I read this post again and again. You speak to my heart.<BR/>Thanks for being so honest. It takes a lot of courage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-1194609191752044092007-12-21T00:56:00.000-08:002007-12-21T00:56:00.000-08:00Great post. I am a sex addict in recovery. I was w...Great post. I am a sex addict in recovery. I was with in love with a great girl. Her story is similar to yours. She discovered evidence about me on the internet, she started searching and learnt all about my visits to prostitutes. We have separated but we are still very close. And she asks me the exact same things: "Why cant you give me that 200% of love and affection?"<BR/>My answer? Us sex addicts are celf-centred creatures. We cared about our satisfaction. We never realised how much other people needed us.<BR/>There are also times when I feel disgraced with myself and i consider I am not worthy of showing my unconditional love for her. I feel she deserves a better life, and in no way do I want to interfere with her future. And yet I still love her madly. Last week I let myself in her house, with the spare key I had, and I prepared a little surprise for her. Just because I wanted to make her happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-23531279994614449962007-12-12T21:42:00.000-08:002007-12-12T21:42:00.000-08:00That's what we all want, my friend. Some are luck...That's what we all want, my friend. Some are luckier than others & get glimpses. Others of us...not so much. <BR/><BR/>The goal for me at this point is to be able to give that kind of "apology" of sorts to myself (can you tell I'm on Steps 8 & 9?!). I know for me that's where my focus needs to be. That's the work I want to do & the place I want to get to. Now if I can only read this dang map & figure out which road to take...<BR/><BR/>~Kellee <BR/>http://crossingmybridge.blogspot.com/Kelleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14867732773223483189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-38561118427382826272007-12-12T21:08:00.000-08:002007-12-12T21:08:00.000-08:00Just came across your post. Thank you for sharing....Just came across your post. Thank you for sharing. You have made me feel less alone. I have only been married 4 years (together 6), and while my husband has not cheated, we did have a talk recently where he told me he isn't sure he wants a child or that he was meant to be in a relationship. He says his love for me is not in question at all but he is scared and doesn't know what to do. In that moment, the one thing I was sure of in life (him) was taken away and I don't know if I will be able to get it back with him or anyone. It is awful. A few days after this conversation, I found out I was pregnant (we only tried once!), and this should be a happy time and instead it is horrifying. I think "trying" to have a baby made my Husband realize he doesn't want one. He has had years to figure this out! I have no idea what I/we will do. How can I possibly have this baby? Anyway, I could really relate to your post and how you feel, and how you wish your H would realize what he has done to you and what you need to get through things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8345462981115809499.post-90350121996083941572007-12-12T19:05:00.000-08:002007-12-12T19:05:00.000-08:00Yep, that's exactly how I feel sometimes too!Yep, that's exactly how I feel sometimes too!Mary P Jones (MPJ)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10251787926841410344noreply@blogger.com